Tuesday, 25 August 2009

How complicated a Relation is


I give a lot of value and respect to my passion for coaching young children - One of my last camps in UAE i had to come up with two different Kids, one was boy and another a girl !! The Boy that i had to coach had a prejudice against anyone, that they are wrong and only his points are right and always had a negative approach to each and everything that he approaches. He was creating a negative vibe with in the team .... I was ready for him for the 3rd day but the nature ditched me as the boy fell sick from the 3rd day and he discontinued the course from there !! Boy ! i am waiting for you for the upcoming camp in December - You have a bright future and you need to realize that !! and its my Job to do the same !!

Second Instance was a girl - She was such an introvert - who never speaks up and with low energy ! the girl was having a such a low self esteem- I was scared with the attitude that she got because i was thinking where will it take her ? I had a discussion with her mother and i realized that what the family issue is ! Her father was never at home and the relation that he had with her Mother was not at all encouraging !! When i heard that from her mother it was a shock for me and a realization that there are guys like this in this God damn world !! After that meeting i made up my mind that i am going to instrumental in changing this kid's life and i took it as a challenge that i will make her face a crowd of 400 on the last day !! At the end of the program she did go to the stage to give a feedback and she declared to the whole world how precious her Mother is and she also proclaimed that " Mom i will be there for you and you are my inspiration" it was such an inspiring feedback ....

(But Complicated relations like this can certainly make an impact on the children !! Parents have to be really careful when things like this comes up and the impact that could affect your child can be negative and then there is no point is saying that my child shouts at me !! He or she doesn't respect me !! I am not sure what to do with my child !! Mind it everything starts at home !)

These incidents gives me the courage and the mental stability to reach more and more people and re affirms that fact i can make a person powerful !! " Everyday & Every way i am becoming better and better -
Proud to be a coach !!

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