Quote for the day

"I was thinking one day, and I realized that if I just had someone behind me, motivating me, I could make a big difference. But since no one came along, I became that person for myself." Isn't that true? We often wait for others to support us, but that leads to expectations and complacency. In the end, you might find yourself alone. The key is to always support yourself and be your own source of motivation.

A Memorable Trip to Kerala

A Memorable Trip to Kerala I was in Kerala from August 31st to September 7th, and while the trip began on a pleasant note, things took an unexpected turn by September 5th. My first welcome to Kerala was rain—non-stop rain! The only song that came to mind was: "Rain, rain, go away, Big Abhayan wants to see the place!" But, unfortunately, the rain gods showed no mercy. Onam was special because most of my relatives were there, and, of course, the delicious feast made it even better. Yet, there was an emptiness in the celebration—everyone missed my dad. On September 4th, I visited my dad’s home village, Mynagapally. What awaited me was heartbreaking news—my grandfather had been admitted to the hospital, and no one was home. We rushed to see him. He looked tired and frail, and seeing him in that condition made me reflect on the kind-hearted man he was and how he raised his eight children—with my dad being the eldest. The next day, September 5th, I was planning to go out with friends for a procession when I received the devastating news—my grandfather had passed away. We hurried back to the village, and I became a part of his final rituals. In that solemn moment, I realized that destiny had brought me to Kerala—to fill the gap left by my father and fulfill my duty to my grandfather. This trip was never planned, but it seemed like fate had already written this chapter. My return flight was on September 7th, and I nearly missed it! According to Airport Authority of India rules, you need to report three hours before departure. My flight was at 1:30 PM, but I only left home at 10:45 AM and reached the airport by 12:15 PM. After making a few calls, I was allowed in—but it was a close call. Meanwhile, Pikku was at his naughtiest—constantly testing my sister’s patience. Despite my occasional stern looks, he remained unfazed. Honestly, I’m not sure where he’s heading, but I wouldn’t be surprised if he makes a grand entry at a SuperbKids or SuperbTeens event soon! And that’s the story of my unexpected and emotional trip to Kerala.

Mohanlal misses the award!

Mohanlal who was tipped to get the 55th National Film Awards for 2007 for his brilliant performance as Valiyakathu Moosa in Pardesi(see pic), lost it by a whisker to Prakash Raj.

A source close to one of the jury members said: “Till the last round Mohanlal was the front runner to get the awards. In the final round, he and Prakash Raj got equal number of votes from the jury members. Finally it was the jury chairman’s casting vote which made Prakash the winner.”

This is not the first time where Mohanlal missed the Bharat Award like this in 1989 he missed it for Kireedom, 1996 for Iruvar, 2005 Thanmathra, and in 2007 for Pardesi !! His tally should have been 7 by now as there many other times he missed the same !!

Anyway Praksah raj did deserved the award and it was an exceptional performance- Best of Luck for the Next time !!

Scattered Papers – really beautiful! - I was very impressed by this message

Scattered Papers – A Powerful Lesson Once upon a time, an old man began spreading rumors that his neighbor was a thief. As a result, the young man was arrested. However, a few days later, he was proven innocent and released. Angry and humiliated, the young man decided to sue the old man for defamation. In court, the old man defended himself, saying, "They were just words—I didn't harm anyone." Before delivering the verdict, the judge handed the old man a simple task: "Write down everything you said about your neighbor on a piece of paper. Cut it into small pieces and scatter them on your way home. Return tomorrow to hear the judgment." The next day, the judge asked the old man to collect all the scattered pieces of paper. Confused, the old man replied, "That's impossible! The wind has spread them everywhere—I could never find them all." The judge then said, "Exactly. In the same way, your careless words have damaged this young man's reputation, and no matter how hard you try, you cannot undo the harm. If you cannot speak kindly about someone, it is better to say nothing at all." "Let us be masters of our words—lest we become slaves to their consequences." 💭 Think twice before speaking about others—you never know the damage your words can cause.

An Article about Boris Becker - the Tennis Player whom i admired the Most

Boom Boom Becker – My All-Time Favorite Tennis Player This isn’t my own writing—but it’s one of my favorite articles, and for a good reason: it’s about Boris Becker, my all-time favorite tennis player—better known as Boom Boom Becker! Whether you knew him as Boom Boom, Der Bomber, or Baron von Slam, one thing is undeniable—he remains the greatest German-born player to ever grace a tennis court. Becker’s game was built around a powerful, well-placed serve—a weapon that earned him his famous nicknames. His unique rocking motion while serving and his fearless dives for volleys on any surface captivated fans worldwide. Beyond his serve, Becker boasted a strong forehand and an impressive return of serve. While he was known for his serve-and-volley approach, he occasionally battled opponents from the baseline, showcasing his versatility. Like John McEnroe, Becker was known for his emotional outbursts during matches—though, unlike McEnroe, these moments of frustration didn’t fuel his game. He often directed his anger at himself, breaking the occasional racket but never lashing out at his opponents. In 1985, just a year after turning professional, Becker stunned the tennis world. At 17 years old, he became the first unseeded player and the first German to win the Wimbledon singles title, making him the youngest male Grand Slam champion—a record held until Michael Chang broke it at the 1989 French Open. Becker cemented his legacy by defeating Ivan Lendl in the 1986 Wimbledon Final, winning back-to-back titles. Though a third consecutive championship eluded him after a shocking second-round exit in 1987, Becker's dominance was far from over. In a historic Davis Cup match that same year, Becker outlasted John McEnroe in an epic battle lasting six hours and 39 minutes—a testament to his endurance and determination. Although Stefan Edberg denied him a Wimbledon title in 1988, Becker responded by defeating both Edberg at Wimbledon and Lendl at the U.S. Open in 1989, securing two Grand Slam titles in one season. Becker continued to shine on the world stage, helping West Germany claim back-to-back Davis Cup victories. In 1991, he conquered Lendl in the Australian Open Final, reaching the coveted position of World No. 1. His rivalry with Andre Agassi was another defining chapter of his career. Becker avenged previous losses with a decisive win over Agassi in the 1995 Wimbledon semi-final, only to fall to Pete Sampras in the championship match. Becker’s final Grand Slam triumph came at the 1996 Australian Open, where he defeated Michael Chang. His humorous victory speech, where he jokingly mentioned not having "all day left," remains a cherished moment for fans. Boom Boom Becker—a tennis legend whose powerful serves, unmatched energy, and unforgettable moments will forever be etched in the history of the sport. 👉 Watch one of Becker’s iconic moments here: YouTube Link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3TGBp4z6RM

Pondicherry My Second Home !!!

Pondicherry – The Place That Shaped Me Pondicherry isn’t just a city—it’s where my journey began. It’s the place that shaped who I am today, where I met people who changed my life, and where I truly understood the essence of life—and even faced death. It’s the place where I found my best friends, experienced my only fantasy, earned my master’s degree, and gained work experience. It’s where I became a Tamil movie admirer and built relationships that will last a lifetime. Everything started there—Pondicherry. I miss that place—it will always be my second home.

My Arul Ashram Memories

Arul Ashram: A Mission of Compassion and Transformation Arul Ashram is more than just a monastery—it’s a sanctuary dedicated to a profound mission: providing dignity in death for the abandoned, offering shelter to orphaned children, and working tirelessly for the betterment of society. My connection to Arul Ashram is deeply personal—I owe much of who I am today to Arul Ashram and Fr. Dominic. I was among the first students to step into Arul Ashram when it officially opened in 1998. Back then, the place was quiet and deserted, yet there was an undeniable peace that matched the meaning of its name—"kindness." During my time at Pondicherry University, I was known for my short temper, which eventually landed me in trouble, even facing a show-cause notice from the Vice Chancellor. It was Fr. Dominic who stayed by my side through the night, teaching me the value of patience. That conversation changed the course of my life—he guided me toward a path of kindness and service. Following his advice, I became a volunteer at Shanti Bhavan, a peaceful home for HIV-infected patients, where I assisted an American volunteer named David. My time there was life-changing—I witnessed death through the eyes of others and saw firsthand how ignorance and fear can isolate the most vulnerable. These experiences opened my eyes to the harsh realities of society and strengthened my commitment to helping those in need. One moment that will always stay with me was when Milkie and I were tasked with burying an AIDS patient. The undertaker refused to dig the grave upon learning the cause of death, and the panchayat opposed the burial altogether. With no other option, we dug the grave ourselves—a moment that revealed just how cruel and unyielding society can be toward those who suffer. Fr. Dominic remains a profound inspiration to me. Despite his age, his boundless energy is unmatched. An MBA graduate, he has mentored and guided countless young people, breaking down barriers of religion and treating everyone with equal compassion. Even today, whenever I have the chance to visit Pondicherry, I never miss an opportunity to return to Arul Ashram—a place that shaped my life and continues to hold a special place in my heart. I miss that place deeply.